Sexual Dysfunction:
Erection Problems, Premature Ejaculation and Delayed Ejaculation

 

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Our Pages On Male Sexual Dysfunction

Erection problems (Part 1)
Erection problems (Part 2)
Erection problems (Part 3)
Ending premature ejaculation
PE - suggestions from readers
Delayed ejaculation 1
Delayed ejaculation 2
Reflections on delayed ejaculation
Men's problems - a summary
Klinefelter's Syndrome

 


Read more about the causes and cures of erectile dysfunction here.

Most men seem to have trouble getting hard from time to time.

Believe it or not, the "official" statistics say an episode of erectile dysfunction occurs once every five times people make love.

I can't say I believe that; at least from my own experience it certainly seems unlikely.

But there are two issues to separate here - the time I lost my erection during sex, it was because we were in a semi-public place, and I thought someone was watching us: this was more than enough to kill the excitement, and, try as I might, I couldn't get another erection.

But most men who have a problem getting hard will be experiencing this because they are either getting older and their testosterone level is dropping, or they have a physical problem such as diabetes, or they are in some emotional distress, such as being depressed, or they are in a relationship they don't want to be in, or....well, you get the idea, I'm sure: there are many possible causes of erection problems.

Read more about the causes and cures of erectile dysfunction here.

 

Summary of the keys to preventing premature ejaculation

1 Breathe slowly and relax during sex.

2 Have strong PC muscles which you can use to control your progress towards ejaculation.

3 Use stop start exercises to enable a more gradual approach to orgasm and ejaculation

4 Use sexual positions which produce less friction on the penis - such as side by side sex

5 Reduce your anxiety and stress level as adrenaline will make you come quicker

6 Don't be over-ambitious - get control of your ejaculation before you start aiming for simultaneous orgasm

8 Don't give up or compromise your sexual performance because it's so much easier to give in to the urge to ejaculate

9 Some sexual dysfunctions, such as lack of lubrication, are easier to clear up than others - in cases like these, a simple application of a suitable lubricant for intercourse may be all that is needed. It's worth mentioning this here because the friction produced by lack of natural lube in the woman's vagina may promote a rapid ejaculation for the man.

10 With our help, find out how to get complete control over timing of male climax - especially if it is slow - and discover how to enjoy faster ejaculation!

Read all about the most powerful way to stop premature ejaculation FAST, here.

 

<Delayed Ejaculation - For Men Who Have Difficulty Ejaculating

Incredible, isn't it? The idea that men might not be able to come during sex?

Yet this bizarre situation is more common than you might think. It's hard to know how many men can't come during sex, because, perhaps understandably, there seems to be a great deal of inhibition about admitting one has this issue (or problem, if you see it that way).

And maybe that's not surprising. Coming during sex is an issue of male pride! So to admit that you can't ejaculate during sex with a woman? What would that mean? That you're not a real man? That you're a suppressed or repressed homosexual? That you don't like women?

Well, this is an issue that affects gay and non-gay men alike. So we have to look deeper.... Read all about delayed ejaculation here.